Is the person you met online who they say they are?
Find practical answers about catfishing, online identity and romance scams. Learn which signs deserve attention, what you can check yourself, and when specialist investigation can help.
Start with the question closest to your situation. Our guides explain what to look for, what the evidence can tell you and what to do next.
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Concerned about a photograph, an avoided video call or a story that doesn’t add up? Explore the questions below for practical guidance.
How do I know if I’m being catfished?
Recognise the warning signs, check the details you have been given and find out what to do if someone’s identity does not add up.
Am I overthinking this online relationship?
Separate unanswered questions from actual contradictions, and decide which concerns need a conversation or further checks.
Is it normal for someone I met online to avoid video calls?
Understand possible reasons for avoiding video calls, when repeated excuses become concerning and why a video call alone does not prove identity.
Why would someone refuse to meet in person after months of talking?
Learn what to consider when meetings keep falling through, how to respond and which accompanying behaviours deserve attention.
What does catfishing actually mean?
Find out what catfishing is, how it differs from keeping personal details private and whether it always involves money.
What are the signs of a romance scam?
Recognise common warning signs, including pressure, secrecy and financial requests, with practical steps to protect yourself.
How do romance scammers ask for money?
Explore the stories used to request money, from supposed emergencies to investment opportunities, and what to do if you have already paid.
Can someone catfish you for months or even years?
Understand how a false identity can be maintained over time and why a long relationship does not, by itself, confirm someone’s story.
Is it a red flag if someone moves the relationship very quickly online?
Learn how to distinguish enthusiasm from pressure, recognise controlling behaviour and set a pace you feel comfortable with.
What if reverse image search shows nothing?
Find out why image searches can return no matches, what that result actually tells you and which checks to try next.